2.06.2012
2.03.2012
(Henri J.M. Nouwen)"When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares."
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| i once said that healing starts with acknowledging pain. so. here i am, confessing i am in a certain kind of sad. because my alpha dog turns out to be a big bad wolf. (all men are wolves. hahaha) and i just want the hurting to stop. on its own. without anyone asking what happened. so let me sing the blues, let me post something cruel until i can get back to all of you. loveyouall <3 |
2.02.2012
(heart)BREAKING NEWS
1. there are people who have affairs which are overly analyzed but is light on commitment. it is not love - it's a theory.
2. there are people who think they're in love and want to marry fast because they don't want to grow old alone. it is not love, but an agenda.
3. there are people who think they're in love with the next warm bodied shmuck they could have after a breakup. it is not love; it's revenge.
4. there are people who think they're in love because they feel like they can't live without them. it is not love - it's infatuation. or an illusion.
5. there are people who constantly check out their partner's cellphone or facebook account just because they want to know everything about their partners. it is definitely not love - it is obsession.
6. there are people who falls hard for the physique, the aesthetics. it is not love, it's vanity. or they're just plain horny. =)
7. there are people who think they're in love just because their partners pamper them silly and make them feel good all the time. it is not love - those people are just self-absorbed. or blood-sucking love vampires who always want to be prioritized.
8. there are people who think they're in love with their past; mainly because they haven't found their closure yet. it is not love, they're just in love with the idea of love.
9. some think they already love their partners because they reciprocate what's being given to them. well, maybe it's not love - maybe they just felt obliged. what's worse, it may be out of pity.
10. there are people who think they're in love just because they feel like there's no one else, or no one's better. it's not love; it's contentment.
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what is love, then?
2. there are people who think they're in love and want to marry fast because they don't want to grow old alone. it is not love, but an agenda.
3. there are people who think they're in love with the next warm bodied shmuck they could have after a breakup. it is not love; it's revenge.
4. there are people who think they're in love because they feel like they can't live without them. it is not love - it's infatuation. or an illusion.
5. there are people who constantly check out their partner's cellphone or facebook account just because they want to know everything about their partners. it is definitely not love - it is obsession.
6. there are people who falls hard for the physique, the aesthetics. it is not love, it's vanity. or they're just plain horny. =)
7. there are people who think they're in love just because their partners pamper them silly and make them feel good all the time. it is not love - those people are just self-absorbed. or blood-sucking love vampires who always want to be prioritized.
8. there are people who think they're in love with their past; mainly because they haven't found their closure yet. it is not love, they're just in love with the idea of love.
9. some think they already love their partners because they reciprocate what's being given to them. well, maybe it's not love - maybe they just felt obliged. what's worse, it may be out of pity.
10. there are people who think they're in love just because they feel like there's no one else, or no one's better. it's not love; it's contentment.
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what is love, then?
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