reposted for a client.

Are you inlove for the right reasons? Dr. Love asks.






1.  there are people who have affairs which are overly analyzed but is light on commitment. it is not love - it's a theory.

2.  there are people who think they're in love and want to marry fast because they don't want to grow old alone.  it is not love, but an agenda.

3.  there are people who think they're in love with the next warm bodied shmuck they could have after a breakup.  it is not love; it's revenge.

4.  there are people who think they're in love because they feel like they can't live without them.  it is not love - it's infatuation.  or  an illusion.

5.  there are people who constantly check out their partner's cellphone or facebook account just because they want to know everything about their partners.  it is definitely not love - it is obsession.

6.  there are people who falls hard for the physique, the aesthetics.  it is not love, it's vanity.  or they're just plain horny. =)

7.  there are people who think they're in love just because their partners pamper them silly and make them feel good all the time.  it is not love - those people are just self-absorbed.  or blood-sucking love vampires who always want to be prioritized.

8.  there are people who think they're in love with their past; mainly because they haven't found their closure yet.  it is not love, they're just in love with the idea of love. 

9.  some think they already love their partners because they reciprocate what's being given to them.  well, maybe it's not love - maybe they just felt obliged.  what's worse, it may be out of pity.

10. there are people who think they're in love just because they feel like there's no one else, or no one's better.  it's not love; it's contentment.

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what is love, then?