3 Gs to combat the big HB

(*by the way, HB means heartbreak, to all you clueless freaks, hahaha just kidding)

GET UP.

When someone took a big, massive, outrageous beating on your heart, you do the usual rituals.  You go in your “little dark room” and scream your lung out.  You throw punches in the air.  You blame the other person.  You blame yourself.  You blame the universe – but it’s all perfectly normal.  We all have to go through the process.  Because it’s a big mistake not to acknowledge the pain and worse, to suppress it.  Open your heart and just let it all out.  It’s okay to stay in the dark but you better pick yourself up and go out and see the light.  You give yourself the time to be angry and be bitter about what has happened and then get up and walk out of that dark shadow you’ve created yourself.  Force yourself to get out of it – only YOU can do it.  Nobody can do it for you.

GO OUT.

Okay, and so you took your time and screamed it all out.  Feeling better? Now that you’ve the strength to go out in the dark, it’s time to be that fabulous person that you are, ready to face the world in all its beauty and madness.  See the light, and realize what life really has to offer.

There’s no sense holding on to something that doesn’t serve your highest good, your greatest purpose.  So devote your time and energy to better things in life than overthink about the heartbreak.  Like work and career growth.  Or quality time with family and friends.  Or charity.  Or develop a new badass skill.  ‘Cos if you really want to, there are hundreds of ways to improve your self, to get busy and be the best person you can be.

Go out and get a life.  A life that you deserve.

GET GOING.

Keep doing what you love doing.  Keep on improving yourself and see remarkable results.  You’ll see yourself in a better place in no time.  “There is more to life than love”, as what Ramon Bautista always say.

Now that you feel like a better person than before, your satisfaction will weigh out all the bitterness you have had before.  See? In no time you’ll be able to shake out the pain, face the world and say, “what heartbreak?”

Your heart is definitely wiser than you think.