HOW TO PUT FUN INTO EVERY DAY
1. Be where you are.
Kids are really good
at enjoying the moment. Adults are addicted to thinking about all the things we
have to do tonight, tomorrow, next week. Where you are is where the fun is.
Nowhere else.
2. Learn something new.
From new words to new
facial expressions, kids are constantly mastering new skills. Make it a point
to continuously be learning something, anything. Aren’t we the ones who tell
our kids that “learning is fun”?
3. Get out of your comfort zone.
Toddlers take risks
all day long. As we mature, we tend to stay in our safe place. Your day will be
so much more exciting if you gather the guts to wear hot pink pants.
4. Find the beat.
While adults would
find a car alarm loud and obnoxious, my daughter dances to the rhythm of
the beat. Seek out the symphony in the background noise.
5. Smile 27 times more than you do.
I’ve heard that
children smile 400 times a day and adults, only 15. Smiling is the catalyst to
having fun.
6. Notice nature.
Every child is in awe
of ants, birds, and dandelions. At some point, we become creatures of the
concrete jungle. Allow yourself to be enamored by Mother Nature.
7. Climb things.
As soon as they
discover their legs, kids start climbing everything. There is something about
being above ground level that is somewhat thrilling. Climb a rock. Climb a
tree. You’ll feel like the master of the universe.
8. Embrace your “flaws.”
Being self-conscious
is stifling. My toddler brings more attention to her Buddha belly than I ever
would. But she also has more fun.
9. Use your imagination.
A child can get lost
in her make-believe world for hours. Imagine riding an elephant in Thailand. Or
running a marathon on the Great Wall of China. You’ll have so much fun
pretending that you might want to make it a reality—which leads to more fun than
you can imagine.
10. Be unpredictable.
There is no knowing
what a kid will get up to next. Step out of your ordinary routine and you’ll be
surprised at how liberated you’ll feel.
11. Hand out high-fives.
For no reason at all,
kids hand out high-fives like they just won gold at the Olympics. Next time you
hear some good news, give somebody a high-five. It feels good to get pumped
about the little things.
12. Slow down.
Children know how to
take their sweet time. Allow yourself enough time to enjoy living. Rushing
sucks all the fun out of the day.
13. Create.
Paint, draw, build,
write. Kids clearly enjoy those activities. Fun is being in your creative
element.
14. Get dirty.
Kids aren’t afraid to
experience life hands on. Get right in there. Make sandcastles. Turn up a log.
15. Break the rules.
Fun doesn’t follow all
the rules. Neither do kids. If it doesn’t hurt, go for it! Leave those pretty
Christmas lights up year-round.
How can you add more
fun to your day?
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(**from a blogpost /
repost)
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