4.24.2011

how to be a rockstar's girl (and keep it)

admit it, ladies.  at one point in in your lives you dreamed of dating a rockstar.  thee is a cartain kind of prestige that comes with it.  it's like having a trophy boyfriend.  so, to snag one, or to keep the relationship stronger, here are your pointers:

don't just know rock and roll, live in it.  rock and roll is not just about music, it's a lifestyle.  get used to the late night gigs and the afterparties - all night, every night.

confidence - and by that i meant HIS.  rockstars are artists by nature - so there will come a time when they will feel insecure and doubt on their music as well.  questions will be raised like, "what if the audience won't like our new material?" you just have to be there, give out a great encouragement speech and boost up their confidence when needed.

confidence - and by that i meant YOURS.  rockstars.  fanbase.  mostly female.  you get the idea.  the thing is, some ladies will will always try to work their way to get noticed by your man, so you gotta do the things you gotta do to keep your man.  always try to look and enbody the vibe of being the lady that this rockstar picked.  always work up on your confidence because i gotta tell ya -  they have the luxury of being the bratty one, not you.

rockstars don't just enjoy rock music, they enjoy other genres as well.  you need to be the girl who knows much about music - be it mainstream or indie; pop or downtempo.  music must also be your passion.  rockstars listen to different kinds of music to get inspiration for their own music.  so maybe you could do some research and introduce your man to uncommercialized musicians. 

work up on your jealousy.  come on, everybody gets jealous.  specially when you have a rockstar for a boyfriend - screaming ladies will annoy you.  what more with groupies?  so always keep your cool, your boyfriend doesn't want a jealous nagging girlfriend.

lastly, don't forget your tagline after every gig: "great set! you were really good up there."

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remember, when it comes to rockstars, your relationship is mostly going to be more about them than the 2 of you.  you have got to accept it from the start.  it comes with the prestige. =)

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